PUT YOURSELF FIRST

The Selfish Leader is a coaching practice with a simple belief: leadership starts with you.

The secret to successful leadership is putting yourself first

Deepen your understanding of who you are. Make conscious choices aligned to your values. Take actions that are healthy for you. You must be the driving force of your life and look after your needs. This is where your leadership begins.

Customer focused
Value oriented
Quality obsessed
People centric

“The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for.”

– Joseph Campbell

WHAT I DO

Provide a space to be heard & understood, offering honesty, wisdom, warmth & advocacy in service of your growth

Coaching

Coaching

A powerful partnership in service of your growth. Experience conversations that enable you to make discoveries, grow your awareness and make bold decisions that transform your life.
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Consulting

Consulting

An approach to organisational problem-solving that draws on two decades of experience across startups, corporates, consulting and public sector.
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Men's Circles & Masculinity

Men's Circles

Circles are spaces that allow men to have courageous conversations that they’re not having elsewhere - an invitation to look inwards, be challenged, and be witnessed.
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Coaching

Coaching

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Consulting

Consulting

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Circles

Circles

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ORGANISATIONS I’VE WORKED WITH
GO DEEPER

There is more to discover

Self-inquiry. Curiosity. Empathy. Deep listening. Systems thinking. Storytelling. These are the new superpowers we need in the technological age we’re in. Download a free copy of my book
We Have Everything We Need’

START WITH YOU

Putting yourself first is the secret to personal growth and powerful change

experience excellence

Challenging yet uplifting & supportive

The Selfish Leader is an environment to be heard and understood. Challenging yet uplifting and supportive, it’s a process of discovery that provokes powerful action. Greater clarity, deeper self-awareness, strong self-inquiry, better decisions and greater decision confidence.

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Latest Thoughts

2 December 2022

In our clamour for leaders to be ‘more human’, are we really ready for the true complexity of what it is to be human?

1 September 2022

In our clamour for leaders to be ‘more human’, are we really ready for the true complexity of what it is to be human?

29 July 2022

Are we taking too much comfort from the past? And is it helpful right now?

20 July 2022

Two beautiful words in a new language and questions with no answers.

22 April 2022

Emotions are everywhere. What happens when workplaces don’t allow them to be expressed?

22 March 2022

Some things can’t be stopped. Most things can. So why is it we keep carrying on?
Our Mission

To explore who you are as much as what you need to do

Coaching is a space to explore who you are as much as what you need to do. Together we uncover your values, focus on your vision, and help you develop deeper self-awareness and greater decision confidence.

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